New Mentality

Yes. I understand. Yes. I know.

And yet... I still manage to get it wrong.

I am not giving up or anything at the moment, I am not a quitter.

I am trying to hold myself back and take a different perspective regarding this situation.

Maybe a change is needed. Maybe a change of mentality.

I thought it would be different this time around. But not everything in life goes as plan.

There are setbacks. But it's how we deal with the adversities that shape who we are as a person.

Whatever happens, happens. And I will need to continue working to reach my ultimate goals in life. Just may have to try harder. Work harder too.

I can't always fix problems on my own, sometimes a little push or encouragement is needed.

But today definitely helped open my eyes, to see maybe a new path that lies ahead.

Self Update

"Do you remember when I said I'd always be there?" Didn't know it back then, that I'd still mean it today.

Anyways, it's been awhile again, so let's catch up again. Winter break went by just like that (although it was 3 weeks long). Right now? I'm back in school for my second semester at George Brown College's Hospitality Tourism Leisure program. I have begun applying for jobs in hopes of employment with my school schedule only consisting of 17hrs because of my two exemptions from accounting and general electives. Sad to say, but I want the income so I can travel come summer term for at least a month and maybe work for the remaining ones.

I think I have come to the realization that I should involve myself in all the different aspects of the hospitality tourism leisure industries if my ultimate career goal is to be accomplished. This means working for a hotel, airline, restaurant, resort, cruise, and just anything that has to do with tourism and hospitality and even leisure.

But yeah, enough about me, it's past midnight and I've got a 9am morning class tomorrow.

TIme to catch up on things.

It's been awhile since we've had a conversation, so I thought it'd be nice to catch up on things. 
Lots has changed for me this year, 
Everything from pure happiness to profound heartbreak,
Has found its way to my 2011.
And honestly I wouldn't change anything if I could.


One of the biggest changes that this year has brought was a certain experience that taught me many valuable lessons.
I learned that even when your heart is broken and you feel like you can never be happy again, you have a choice.
Sometimes life will disappoint us, 
But we can choose how we react. 
We have the capacity to evolve, 
To develop perseverance and strength, 
Because of the pain.


Heres to 2011! Happy Holidays and Happy New Years!

p.s I am thinking of finally starting my travel blog/vlog about my travels and one about my experiences in Toronto- the restaurants and events.

I`m a HTL-er and I kinda like it

Yes, I know I have failed this miserably but I have good reason, mainly that I have been so busy with college. Who would have thought that college would have so much to do. 

Already finished five weeks of classes, seemed to go by like it was just yesterday that summer was ending... And with assignment after the other, and tests piling up, and group projects once again piling up... this sure ain't a stroll in the park.

Even after just five weeks, I may have uncovered what I might want to do in the future if I were to have a hospitality/tourism focused career (which I will explain later), learned so much about dining, wines, alcoholic drinks- all of which reminds me of my one time goal of becoming a restaurateur. I've involved myself with school and I'm enjoying it, learning new things, having free food/wine samples and meeting new people too. But the food and dining required in some assignments, I have really come to like the classes (except for having to pay for our own meals of course).

So what I think would be an excellent job in the future, although it may be just now, but for my own reference sake, what if I were to be an online travel adviser/tour guide/reviewer working with destination marketers to help tourists experience their vacations as locals and to be able to blog or vlog my journeys around the world. That would be the ultimate- to travel the world as a job. I wake up everyday in a new city. One can dream.

Yep, just a quick update on this blog, no fancy pictures or anything, just me, reflecting on the past 5 weeks of classes so far at the hospitality, tourism, leisure program at George Brown College.

The power of FaceTime

So I got a nice Facetime call from Mathew yesterday after they got back to Alameda from Reno and he had his first experience in preparing for kindergarten...He says he's excited to start school, so that's always something good to hear. And also reminded me that I should write something here again. So I guess this entry will be our trip to the Ontario Science Centre.


We went after having lunch at a congee/noodle restaraunt so we wouldn't need to pay for lunch there again, but like always, had to still buy some pizza from the cafeteria. We started our journey at the Ontario Science Centre at a new show/exhibit of forensic investigation, which included a show (CSI style). And the kids got scared, from the magic show and the pyrotechnics and loud sounds...The whole show included Mathew whining he wanted to leave, but he needs to be braver so we watch the entire show.

Then to the kids zone where they got to explore and play around the different stalls, especially the supermarket for kids. And lastly, their favourite thing to do was the balls that move around a specially designed track. "We could be there all day just watching them play with the balls."

Random Field Trips...

We brought them to one of the rib-fests happening around the city, this was the one in Scarborough..We had brought them to the one at Thompson Park the previous year and they had a variety of midway rides, but this one did not. Their midway rides consisted of ONE slide. Yup. Oh yeah, it was also Canada Day.

Since the sister had work I brought them to Mcdonalds Play Place and Mini-golfing one day. It was scorching hot and again, they complained of the heat and sun. Something they clearly are still not used to coming from the cool breezy Bay area.

39 days have gone and passed.

How time really flies. Yes, I know I have not kept my blog commitment here: but 39days have passed since my little cousins were here. Their flight was yesterday morning and I received a nice phone call once they landed back in SFO. So here I am, working on this again, trying to document the adventures, struggles, and all the fun we shared together. I hope to have a new post each day this week for this.


I remember like it was last night, going to the airport to pick them up, delayed and all by Air Canada during their labour strike. From then on, we pretty much saw each other everyday, with some days in between left for me to sleep in. With the sister still having to work until the end of June, it was my will to entertain them in the meantime because after all, they came to Toronto early to attend my convocation with me.


Yeah, there aren't many pictures during June other than my convocation which I have already posted, but the first realistic field trip we took them was Whittmore Farm to play at the farm and do some strawberry picking! Enjoy.